Dear Daughter of Almighty God
James 3:17 (NIV)
17 But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.
When you are listening for God to talk to you this is a good guide to go by. Is what I am hearing pure, because God is pure. Is what I am hearing peace-loving, God is all about peace. God is considerate and would not go against Himself. God is all of the above and He does not contradict Himself or the Word.
It is good practice listening out for God.
Your loving sister Amanda